Take it or leave it
It seems like some people are not used to good things. And I hate it so much because some of us are crying for such goodness which just doesn’t seem to come our way.
Please don’t take it personally, I’m not talking about myself at all! But also it’s not the type of crying with tears and noise. I just, for once, would like those that have nice things to cherish every moment of it but they don’t even think like that! I’m talking about a good girl who has a nice boyfriend with a good personality and you name the list.
But you will find this very same girl out there, doing things that she shouldn’t. And this poor guy doesn’t have the slightest clue. Mxium such things make me feel so bad because he is out there using every single fibre of his mind and soul, trying to give you the world.
But I understand that people are different and we all come from different walks of life hence we can never be alike.
Some people like simple things and what many would regard as useless. The olden day type of donkey life shandies. Where thoughts were the only things that counted; walks in the parks, picnics and just romancing was still considered.
Whilst others sing songs like ‘love must fall because it doesn’t pay no bills’ and life must be lived to the maximum capacity. Go out there, get somebody who can support you with all the luxurious expenses you come with and if you cannot afford, we move onto the next one. And the chain goes on and on.
But regardless of how many times you move on or how many new guys you get we are humans at the end of the day and we have feelings.
These feelings wouldn’t want you to be alone and obviously another person is needed to cater for you. So even if the poor person satisfies your feelings and can accommodate you, they might not be able to do that financially and vice versa. So according to this equation automatically one is supposed to have multiple partners for them to fit in society as perceived by those who chose to see life like that. But we don’t blame them, we accommodate after all nobody should be left out isn’t it?
I would like for us to stay true to ourselves and not be changed by what we see on TV. I still believe honesty is the best policy and communication is key in any relationship! You never know if your partner is perhaps feeling the same way about certain situations and you could be saving the both of you headaches and time!
JUNE SHIMUOSHILI
Please don’t take it personally, I’m not talking about myself at all! But also it’s not the type of crying with tears and noise. I just, for once, would like those that have nice things to cherish every moment of it but they don’t even think like that! I’m talking about a good girl who has a nice boyfriend with a good personality and you name the list.
But you will find this very same girl out there, doing things that she shouldn’t. And this poor guy doesn’t have the slightest clue. Mxium such things make me feel so bad because he is out there using every single fibre of his mind and soul, trying to give you the world.
But I understand that people are different and we all come from different walks of life hence we can never be alike.
Some people like simple things and what many would regard as useless. The olden day type of donkey life shandies. Where thoughts were the only things that counted; walks in the parks, picnics and just romancing was still considered.
Whilst others sing songs like ‘love must fall because it doesn’t pay no bills’ and life must be lived to the maximum capacity. Go out there, get somebody who can support you with all the luxurious expenses you come with and if you cannot afford, we move onto the next one. And the chain goes on and on.
But regardless of how many times you move on or how many new guys you get we are humans at the end of the day and we have feelings.
These feelings wouldn’t want you to be alone and obviously another person is needed to cater for you. So even if the poor person satisfies your feelings and can accommodate you, they might not be able to do that financially and vice versa. So according to this equation automatically one is supposed to have multiple partners for them to fit in society as perceived by those who chose to see life like that. But we don’t blame them, we accommodate after all nobody should be left out isn’t it?
I would like for us to stay true to ourselves and not be changed by what we see on TV. I still believe honesty is the best policy and communication is key in any relationship! You never know if your partner is perhaps feeling the same way about certain situations and you could be saving the both of you headaches and time!
JUNE SHIMUOSHILI
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