Leave toxic relationships
Sometimes ladies put up with a lot of things. We are strong, beautiful and very caring. But at times we should not allow things to get into our tough nature. One thing we should not tolerate is cheating. It devalues us and the other person, and it is just completely wrong.
I've seen women get cheated on and still remain in those relationships. The excuse is that they cannot throw away so many years with their cheating partners. These kinds of women do not know that they deserve better. When someone does not treat you right - especially in cases where your partner is not faithful to you, you need to take the highway. You deserve to be treated with respect, love and care and you should never surrender your happiness for someone who is only going to lie, disappoint and be dishonest with you.
First, I have to say that getting over any man you love obviously won't be easy. The first thing to think about is the likelihood of it happening again. We've all heard the saying, “Once a cheater, always and a cheater”. It all comes down to your principles; do you believe you can change someone? Even if they really don't cheat on you again, are you willing to live with the constant paranoia? Because you and I both know, no matter how many times you think or say you've gotten past it, you know what's going to be in the back of your mind when you're not there with him on a business trip or out with his buddies. Do you really want to be that girl making Olympic lunges to get to his phone before it locks once he leaves the room to go to the bathroom?
Truth is, whatever the setting, whoever cheats on you does not respect you or your relationship enough to be loyal to you – it is not on. Period!! If you're in denial, it will take a while to accept this, but you cannot make excuses for their actions. You need to face this fact and come to terms with the truth before you can assess whether or not you want to leave the relationship.
Reclaim your happiness and make yourself a priority and do not cheat yourself of your peace of mind. Let go of the negative energy and let go of men who cheat on you. It's not going to be easy but you will get over it because that's what makes you who you are. Don't tolerate things that compromise the way you live and behave, cheating is wrong and should not be accepted at all.
June Shimuoshili
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I've seen women get cheated on and still remain in those relationships. The excuse is that they cannot throw away so many years with their cheating partners. These kinds of women do not know that they deserve better. When someone does not treat you right - especially in cases where your partner is not faithful to you, you need to take the highway. You deserve to be treated with respect, love and care and you should never surrender your happiness for someone who is only going to lie, disappoint and be dishonest with you.
First, I have to say that getting over any man you love obviously won't be easy. The first thing to think about is the likelihood of it happening again. We've all heard the saying, “Once a cheater, always and a cheater”. It all comes down to your principles; do you believe you can change someone? Even if they really don't cheat on you again, are you willing to live with the constant paranoia? Because you and I both know, no matter how many times you think or say you've gotten past it, you know what's going to be in the back of your mind when you're not there with him on a business trip or out with his buddies. Do you really want to be that girl making Olympic lunges to get to his phone before it locks once he leaves the room to go to the bathroom?
Truth is, whatever the setting, whoever cheats on you does not respect you or your relationship enough to be loyal to you – it is not on. Period!! If you're in denial, it will take a while to accept this, but you cannot make excuses for their actions. You need to face this fact and come to terms with the truth before you can assess whether or not you want to leave the relationship.
Reclaim your happiness and make yourself a priority and do not cheat yourself of your peace of mind. Let go of the negative energy and let go of men who cheat on you. It's not going to be easy but you will get over it because that's what makes you who you are. Don't tolerate things that compromise the way you live and behave, cheating is wrong and should not be accepted at all.
June Shimuoshili
[email protected]
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