Aunty Nangy

I don’t reach orgasmHi Aunty Nangy, My name is HotBoy and I’m 20 years old. My problem is that I don't come whenever I have sex but I dirty my pants in wet dreams. Could it be that real sex doesn't interest me?Dear HotBoy,I do not think you have a serious problem with your sexual competence. There are reasons why you may be experiencing the challenge that you have presented to me. Firstly, your problem could be the result of your mental state or psychological problem. If a person is mentally troubled, it can affect their performance in bed. Free your mind so that you can enjoy your sexual encounters. Secondly, do you know that if you have sexual intercourse with a bladder full of urine, you will not ejaculate? Next time you make love see that you have emptied your bladder. Thirdly, drinking too much alcohol or smoking can result in you having difficulty in reaching orgasm. In the medical field, delayed ejaculation (DE) can be a lifelong problem. I advise you to see a doctor for professional advice in case your challenge is the result of other physiological issues.Am I pregnant?Dear Aunty Nangy I had a child three months ago and now and I didn’t get my period after getting the baby. Is it possible to become pregnant if I have sex without a condom? Respond to me please Aunty.I suggest that you see a doctor so that you take a pregnancy test. Yes, it is possible to fall pregnant after giving birth and if you are having unprotected sex. However, some women do not menstruate for as long as they are breast feeding on demand. When you go to the clinic or your doctor after delivery you are advised to go on contraceptives and it appears you did not get this advice or you did not go to the clinic. Family planning services are offered free of charge in Namibia so just make time to go to the nearest clinic for contraceptives and family-planning advice.I am confusedDear Auntie Nangy,I’m a girl aged 22 and I fell in love with a big man who is not even my age. He said he trusts me and he loves me. He always comes to me and even picks me up. I also love him. He is with me even when I am not feeling good. Now I don’t know what I must do. What must I do to solve this Aunty? Please help me. Dear young lady,You have presented a case that has a lot of holes and information that you have deliberately withheld. You say you have a problem but I do not see where your problem is if you are in love with a much older man. I find it difficult to advise you properly because the information you gave is sketchy. It appears you are in love with an elderly married man and that is why you see a problem in your relationship because it is not a crime to fall in love with a man who is much older that you. If this man is married as I suspect, then I suggest that you leave him because you are going to cause problems when the wife finds out about your relationship. You did not say how much older your boyfriend is. The problem is you are not being honesty with Aunty. Should I take him to court for maintenance?Hi Aunty Nangy,My name is Ndapewa, a 23-year-old mother of two. My babies’ daddy went to work in Walvis Bay and I was left at my village with the kids. He used to send us money without me asking him and we were very happy. I am now hearing rumours that he has another woman in his life and she is also expecting. Now he doesn’t send us money as he used to and he gets angry when I mention the kids. I don’t mind if he moves on but I would really love for him to continue supporting my children as I don’t have a job. My parents advised me to make him pay maintenance fees but I don’t want to do that just yet because he might change. Please tell me what to do.Dear Ndapewa,I understand your concern. I also don’t know if you are married to this man or not. But, I think the best way is to do as your parents advise, because he is responsible for the wellbeing of his children even if he has another woman in Walvis Bay.

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