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Dear Aunty Nangy I'm Monicah and I am 30 and the mother of five children. I have a problem with my boyfriend of four years. Since last year he has wanted to marry me but I refused because I don't trust him. He misuses money and spends it on things I don't see at all. He only supports my children with food but does not buy them any clothes. Since we met he only buys furniture for his house and nothing for my house. The way things are, he wants me to support him with everything including looking after his children from previous relationships and yet he gives me nothing. I'm tired of this and I stopped doing it because he does not do the same with me.It appears that you are in a relationship of convenience and your boyfriend is using you financially and materially. If you are in a relationship with a man who does not love your children and is willing to provide for them and yet he expects you to provide and look after his then just ditch the guy. The fact that he has children from previous relationships could be a good indication that the other women dumped him for his exploitative habit. He is a spiv and I feel you must just leave him. If he was serious about the relationship he would act responsibly by looking after the children, both yours and his. If he is buying furniture for his house then it is a clear indication that he is not being inclusive. He should be planning settling down with you by involving you in issues that affect both of you including all your children and furnishings for the house. Would you be happy marrying a man who squanders family income on things that he cannot account for? You have clear indicators that this man in no man. Pack your love bags and move on my dear.Dear Aunty NangyI am a 30-year-old married man and I have a problem. Whenever I have sex with my wife I don't enjoy it because her vagina is too watery and wet. This kills my mood. Please what can she do? It appears that you do not know much about the anatomy or make-up of a woman’s body. The way a woman was created for sexual intimacy is amazing and you seem not to understand and appreciate the beauty and pleasure of sexual intercourse. When you have foreplay before intercourse, the woman’s body responds. It is that stimulation that makes her wet and slippery to aid penetration or to allow your manhood to enter without hurting and that is God’s cleverness. That you feel she is too wet could also be your challenge of having a small item. Dear Aunty Nangy, I am a married 32-year-old woman and I have a problem. I do not have feelings for sex anymore. Even if my husband plays with my private parts I do not switch on. I have lost interest. Even if my husband is away with work for three months I do not even think of sex. To me it’s now a disturbance. What must I do Auntie? I want to enjoy my husband’s love. Please it hurts me. Sometimes I pretend so that my husband does not notice it.There are a number of reasons why a woman can lose sexual desire and it can affect women of all ages especially from 18-50. Most cases of women with your problem are caused by both mental and physical factors but this problem can be treated. Your sexual desire can go down because there is lack satisfaction in your relationship. A woman can also lose desire for sex after the birth of a child or taking care of a loved one or even job stress. But the good news is the doctors can give you medicine or hormones that can give you back your sexual desire. Dear Aunty Nangy,I am an 18 year-old girl. I have a boyfriend who is far away from me and I always feel I want to have sex but I don’t know what to do. Aunty, help me.Waiting is sign of true love and patience. Anyone can say I love you but not everyone can wait and prove it’s true. This is what defines if you truly love your boyfriend who is far away from you. You are young and I hope you are not taking sexual intercourse as a way of showing your boyfriend that you love him. If you truly love him you will wait only for him.

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