Aunty Nangy
In love with three boys
Aunty Nangy,
I have a problem. I don’t know what to do. I am an 18-year-girl and I am in love with three boys. I don’t know which one to choose. Please Aunty, help me. What can I do?
Firstly, I want to tell you that there is a difference between falling in love and sleeping around. I believe true love is only given to one person that you choose to love “till death do us part”. You are not in love but you are sleeping around and indeed you have a problem. At 18 you are in love with three men? I fail to understand how a woman can fall in love with three men at the same time. You are a very brave girl who one of these days will be in deep trouble when these men find out that you have been cheating on them. You make yourself a classic victim of sexual and gender-based violence because naturally males are a possessive species that do not want to share a female - including animals. I strongly advise you to choose one or dump them all before it is too late. I presume you are also sleeping with these three men and I am hoping that you are using protection. In the absence of that, then you are exposing yourself and these men to sexually transmitted diseases and HIV.
I love my friend’s girlfriend
Hi Auntie Nangy
I am a 16-year-old boy and I have fallen in love with a girl who is in love with my friend. My friend does not love her. Please help me.
The way you feel about your friend’s girlfriend is not strange. There are many cases of friends ending up in a romantic affair with their friend’s girlfriend or boyfriend. I think your feelings are made stronger by the fact that you know your friend is taking that girl for a ride yet she is attractive to you and evokes a romantic feeling in you. If your friend has been open about not being in love with the girl then get her. He will realise later he lost a gem.
Should I trust her?
Dear Aunty Nangy
My name is Denzel and I am 23 years old. I have a girlfriend who is 40 years old and we have been having unprotected sex. She told me that she is pregnant. After a week she said she was having her periods. What can I do? Can I trust this lady or not? I need advice on this.
If I got you right that the woman you are in a relationship with is 40 years old, then she is mature enough to know when she is pregnant. I find it strange that she told you she was having her periods after telling you that she was pregnant. If she had said that she was having a miscarriage then it would make sense. I personally think your cougar may have aborted the pregnancy of this young man, that is if you are the only one. Proceed with caution. I don’t trust her.
Dear Aunty Nangy
I am 20 years old and I just want to ask you what I must use for my eyes to become white. What do Windhoek girls use on their faces they look so beautiful and fresh?
As far as I know, people are born with different eye colours. The colour of our eyes is genetic and not something that you can change. As for the beautiful faces of the Windhoek girls, it can only be taking care of their faces and spending their money on their faces to look good. The face has a maintenance regime that you can also follow if you visit beauty specialists. It is more than just washing your face with soap and water. What you eat also contributes to the goodness of your skin.
No kiss, no sex for four years
Dear Aunty Nangy
I am a 22-years-old lady and I have been in love with a 26-year-old guy for almost for four years. I love the guy very much and I trust him. But until now, we have not kissed or made love. This causes me to think a lot. Is he the right guy for me or should I move on?
My dear you are not in a romantic relationship with this guy. Four years is too long without even a kiss. I have no problem with you not having sex but a kiss is a non-verbal way to say you are special. He may be having other biological problems that you are not aware of. Did you try to kiss him? Maybe you should try and see if you will light up the fire in him.
Aunty Nangy,
I have a problem. I don’t know what to do. I am an 18-year-girl and I am in love with three boys. I don’t know which one to choose. Please Aunty, help me. What can I do?
Firstly, I want to tell you that there is a difference between falling in love and sleeping around. I believe true love is only given to one person that you choose to love “till death do us part”. You are not in love but you are sleeping around and indeed you have a problem. At 18 you are in love with three men? I fail to understand how a woman can fall in love with three men at the same time. You are a very brave girl who one of these days will be in deep trouble when these men find out that you have been cheating on them. You make yourself a classic victim of sexual and gender-based violence because naturally males are a possessive species that do not want to share a female - including animals. I strongly advise you to choose one or dump them all before it is too late. I presume you are also sleeping with these three men and I am hoping that you are using protection. In the absence of that, then you are exposing yourself and these men to sexually transmitted diseases and HIV.
I love my friend’s girlfriend
Hi Auntie Nangy
I am a 16-year-old boy and I have fallen in love with a girl who is in love with my friend. My friend does not love her. Please help me.
The way you feel about your friend’s girlfriend is not strange. There are many cases of friends ending up in a romantic affair with their friend’s girlfriend or boyfriend. I think your feelings are made stronger by the fact that you know your friend is taking that girl for a ride yet she is attractive to you and evokes a romantic feeling in you. If your friend has been open about not being in love with the girl then get her. He will realise later he lost a gem.
Should I trust her?
Dear Aunty Nangy
My name is Denzel and I am 23 years old. I have a girlfriend who is 40 years old and we have been having unprotected sex. She told me that she is pregnant. After a week she said she was having her periods. What can I do? Can I trust this lady or not? I need advice on this.
If I got you right that the woman you are in a relationship with is 40 years old, then she is mature enough to know when she is pregnant. I find it strange that she told you she was having her periods after telling you that she was pregnant. If she had said that she was having a miscarriage then it would make sense. I personally think your cougar may have aborted the pregnancy of this young man, that is if you are the only one. Proceed with caution. I don’t trust her.
Dear Aunty Nangy
I am 20 years old and I just want to ask you what I must use for my eyes to become white. What do Windhoek girls use on their faces they look so beautiful and fresh?
As far as I know, people are born with different eye colours. The colour of our eyes is genetic and not something that you can change. As for the beautiful faces of the Windhoek girls, it can only be taking care of their faces and spending their money on their faces to look good. The face has a maintenance regime that you can also follow if you visit beauty specialists. It is more than just washing your face with soap and water. What you eat also contributes to the goodness of your skin.
No kiss, no sex for four years
Dear Aunty Nangy
I am a 22-years-old lady and I have been in love with a 26-year-old guy for almost for four years. I love the guy very much and I trust him. But until now, we have not kissed or made love. This causes me to think a lot. Is he the right guy for me or should I move on?
My dear you are not in a romantic relationship with this guy. Four years is too long without even a kiss. I have no problem with you not having sex but a kiss is a non-verbal way to say you are special. He may be having other biological problems that you are not aware of. Did you try to kiss him? Maybe you should try and see if you will light up the fire in him.
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