Aunty Nangy
Pregnant and always angry
Auntie Nangy, I have a problem. My girlfriend is pregnant she is always angry with me. Please help me, what can I do no.
When a woman falls pregnant, the body goes through a period of hormonal changes that make a woman experience mood swings. They suddenly get angry over small things and blow the issue out of proportion. Please understand her situation. You can leave her alone and take a walk then come back later when her temper has gone down. Talk to her and tell her that you understand what she is going through and that you still love her. It will calm her nerves. Good luck.
I only like anal sex
Auntie Nangy, I’m 27 years old and my girl she is 22 years. I only like doing anal sex with her and I don’t know why. Perhaps you can help me.
People have different sexual preferences and yours is the rear rave. I guess if your girlfriend has no problem with the status quo, then enjoy it. It becomes a challenge if your woman doesn’t like it and prefers vaginal sex.
Ordered to stay away
Auntie Nangy, I’m 20 years old and my girlfriend is 17. Her mum found out and called me to stay away, or she will take me to jail. What can I do? She loves me and I love her. Please help.
At 17, the mother of your girlfriend must be feeling that her daughter is too young to be in a romantic relationship and things can go wrong. She is being protective like any other parent and you must understand how she feels. Do not cross her path or she will have you arrested, because at 17, her child is below the age of consent. You have to play it safe until she is 18 and it is only a few months before 2017 when she will turn 18 and old enough to be in a relationship.
My father is ill-treating me
Aunty Nangy, I am a 17- year-old girl. My mother died in 2011. I am just with my father. The problem is he treats me worse than my brother. Please help me.
Many times parents want to protect their children from harm, especially the girl child. He is maybe overdoing it to keep you safe and you must understand how he feels. It does not mean that he does not love you.
I am considering aborting this pregnancy
Aunty Nangy, I am 21 years and I’m dating a man who is 29. The problem is I’m pregnant and my boyfriend does not reply when I text him. I later discovered that he changed his number and when I try to call him the cell phone is off. I feel worried now. I don’t know what I can do. He does not love me and yet I’m carrying his child. I am thinking of aborting the pregnancy. Please help me.
For a man who is almost 30 years old this kind of behaviour is not good. From what you have said it is very clear that your man just used you to satisfy his sexual needs and has disappeared, because he does not want to take responsibility for his you and his child. If you did not want a child you should have used condoms or other means of contraception. Please, and I am begging you, stop thinking about abortion. You made a choice to have unprotected sex. That child you are carrying did not have a choice. He or she is a consequence of your actions and has the right to live and enjoy life like you did. Your parents are happy to have you as their child and with the same spirit please be fair to the unborn child and let that child be born and promise me that you will look after her. Many successful people are born and were looked after by single mothers and your child can be one of them. Please give her/him the chance to come into this beautiful world, one day that child will take care of you and could even become a president of the country. Think about it and please do not abort this child.
He still sees the other woman
Aunty Nangy, I am a girl aged 21 and have a six-month-old son. The father of my son has a two-year-old son with a different woman. He said he wants to marry me, but the problem is he is still with another woman. What must I do? Please help.
It is up to you to decide if you want to marry a man with another woman or not. I think your man is promiscuous or he likes women, because in two years he has had two children with two different women. I advise you to leave him.
Auntie Nangy, I have a problem. My girlfriend is pregnant she is always angry with me. Please help me, what can I do no.
When a woman falls pregnant, the body goes through a period of hormonal changes that make a woman experience mood swings. They suddenly get angry over small things and blow the issue out of proportion. Please understand her situation. You can leave her alone and take a walk then come back later when her temper has gone down. Talk to her and tell her that you understand what she is going through and that you still love her. It will calm her nerves. Good luck.
I only like anal sex
Auntie Nangy, I’m 27 years old and my girl she is 22 years. I only like doing anal sex with her and I don’t know why. Perhaps you can help me.
People have different sexual preferences and yours is the rear rave. I guess if your girlfriend has no problem with the status quo, then enjoy it. It becomes a challenge if your woman doesn’t like it and prefers vaginal sex.
Ordered to stay away
Auntie Nangy, I’m 20 years old and my girlfriend is 17. Her mum found out and called me to stay away, or she will take me to jail. What can I do? She loves me and I love her. Please help.
At 17, the mother of your girlfriend must be feeling that her daughter is too young to be in a romantic relationship and things can go wrong. She is being protective like any other parent and you must understand how she feels. Do not cross her path or she will have you arrested, because at 17, her child is below the age of consent. You have to play it safe until she is 18 and it is only a few months before 2017 when she will turn 18 and old enough to be in a relationship.
My father is ill-treating me
Aunty Nangy, I am a 17- year-old girl. My mother died in 2011. I am just with my father. The problem is he treats me worse than my brother. Please help me.
Many times parents want to protect their children from harm, especially the girl child. He is maybe overdoing it to keep you safe and you must understand how he feels. It does not mean that he does not love you.
I am considering aborting this pregnancy
Aunty Nangy, I am 21 years and I’m dating a man who is 29. The problem is I’m pregnant and my boyfriend does not reply when I text him. I later discovered that he changed his number and when I try to call him the cell phone is off. I feel worried now. I don’t know what I can do. He does not love me and yet I’m carrying his child. I am thinking of aborting the pregnancy. Please help me.
For a man who is almost 30 years old this kind of behaviour is not good. From what you have said it is very clear that your man just used you to satisfy his sexual needs and has disappeared, because he does not want to take responsibility for his you and his child. If you did not want a child you should have used condoms or other means of contraception. Please, and I am begging you, stop thinking about abortion. You made a choice to have unprotected sex. That child you are carrying did not have a choice. He or she is a consequence of your actions and has the right to live and enjoy life like you did. Your parents are happy to have you as their child and with the same spirit please be fair to the unborn child and let that child be born and promise me that you will look after her. Many successful people are born and were looked after by single mothers and your child can be one of them. Please give her/him the chance to come into this beautiful world, one day that child will take care of you and could even become a president of the country. Think about it and please do not abort this child.
He still sees the other woman
Aunty Nangy, I am a girl aged 21 and have a six-month-old son. The father of my son has a two-year-old son with a different woman. He said he wants to marry me, but the problem is he is still with another woman. What must I do? Please help.
It is up to you to decide if you want to marry a man with another woman or not. I think your man is promiscuous or he likes women, because in two years he has had two children with two different women. I advise you to leave him.
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