Auntie Nangy

Torn between two lovers
Dear Auntie Nangy, I met this really nice guy that I like but the problem is my ex wants us to get back together.
I really do not know what to do as I still love my ex, even though he is full of it sometime. I am torn between the two. What can I do?

Remind yourself of the reasons why you and your ex split in the first place. Only you can decide if you want to take the chance on hooking up with your ex again and facing the same problems you did the first time around.

They all do me wrong
Dear Auntie Nangy,
I can't get a good man. I thought I have one, but the problem is that he does not behave like he is dating me. Sometimes I send him SMSes, but he doesn't reply. He cheats on me with other girls. What must I do? I need your advice, because I'm confused. He is not the only one who does that to me. All the guys that I date just do the same things to me. I don't know what is wrong with me.

If he cheats on you, doesn't make the effort to stay in touch with you and you feel that he does not treat you the way you want to be treated, then try telling him how you feel. If he still does not see anything wrong with it, then maybe it's time you considered moving on. If this is an ongoing thing that happens a lot in your relationships, then maybe it's something you are letting your boyfriends do to you. You should respect and value yourself enough for the other person to see that he just can't mess with you as he pleases.

We were in our underwear
Dear Auntie Nangy,
I am worried about myself. I just missed my period this month and I am afraid that I might be pregnant. The funny thing is that I didn't have sex. We were just in our underwear and my boyfriend was on top of me. Is it possible for me to get pregnant in such a way or must I consult a doctor?

You are not pregnant, because there was no intercourse. If there was penetration, then you could be, but since you say that the two of you were in your underwear, you are not. You might have missed your period due to stress, illness or any medication you might be on. I, however, stress that I am not a doctor and would therefore advise you to still go and see a doctor.