She said no: marriages in China plummet to record low

Marriages in China plunged 20% to a record low in 2024 as young people resisted government efforts to convince them to settle down and have more babies.Marriages in China dropped from 7.7 million in 2023 to 6.1 million last year, data from China’s civil affairs ministry showed. The figure was less than half the number registered in 2013 and the lowest since record keeping began in 1986.The data also showed that 2.6 million couples filed for divorce in 2024, up 1.1% from the previous year.The sharp dive in nuptials was amplified by 2023’s brief rebound as people caught up on weddings after several years of Covid restrictions. There was also speculation that people had avoided getting married in 2024 because it was an inauspicious “widow year” in the Chinese lunar calendar.But the broader trend remained on track – stubbornly resisting the ruling Communist party’s push to reverse China’s demographic decline.“It’s not that people don’t want to get married, but that they can’t afford to get married!” said one Changzhou-based commenter on China’s social media platform Weibo, which has had more than 46 million engagements about the topic since Monday.Have more babiesChina has the world’s second-largest population and for decades enforced tight restrictions on childbirth, including a one-child policy. But now, as China faces a decreasing and ageing population, which threatens the country’s economic future, the authoritarian government wants people to have more children.A big part of that push is trying to encourage more marriages. Births are tightly linked to marriage in China, with childbearing out of wedlock discouraged by traditional values and various government regulations.But the decades of restrictions mean there are fewer people today who are of marriageable age – and those who are, aren’t interested in marriage or children.“For many young people, not getting married is an active choice. At the same time, having their own lifestyle and enjoying single life is also a big reason,” said another commenter on Weibo.“Women can support themselves and do not need to rely on men. The willingness to get married is much lower than in the past.”Cost of living Concerns over high youth unemployment, the skyrocketing cost of living, education and childcare, and a pushback against traditional gender roles have held fast against the government’s financial entreaties and policy overhauls.“Collapsing marriage rates reflect a convergence of social forces: a declining population of young adults, a darkening economic outlook for recent graduates, changing attitudes towards marriage, and escalating gender polarisation between men and women,” said Carl Minzner, senior fellow for China studies at the Council for Foreign Relations, who described the drop in nuptials as “extreme”.On Weibo, commenters also noted how society appeared to have become “more tolerant”, with some highlighting what they said was a shift in the level of pressure being exerted by families at recent Chinese New Year gatherings.“Ten years ago, what I heard most from relatives was about which daughter or son was not married by the age of 27 or 28. Now, what I hear is about those basically 30 years old and above. [Getting married before] 27 or 28 is no longer eligible for discussion.”Many commenters also cited the controversial introduction of a divorce cooling-off period in 2021, making them wary of the “easy entry and strict exit” for marriage. Others noted China’s refusal to legalise same-sex marriage or provide equivalent rights to same-sex de facto couples.“Why did the number of marriage registrations drop again in 2024? Because I am a lesbian,” wrote one woman.

She said no: marriages in China plummet to record low

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