Stand up for your rights
Stand up for your rights

Stand up for your rights

About 70% of criminal cases registered at the High Court were related to gender-based violence.
Jana-Mari Smith
Namibians need to fight against the shackles of gender-based violence (GBV) and child abuse by raising their voices and becoming better listeners who believe the victims.

“Silence is killing us. We need to raise our voices,” Rosa Namises, human rights activist and director of Women Solidarity in Namibia, said at an event commemorating the 16 days of Activism against GBV on Saturday.

“Silence is death. If you are silent, you are killing the people and yourself,” she said at the event hosted by LifeLine/ChildLine.

She warned that it is critical to not only share stories, but also to listen and believe those who work up the courage to tell their stories.

“Sometimes, you are not allowed to tell your story.

“We must listen. As leaders we must listen. Community members, neighbours, listen. You must react, stand up for people. If you don't listen, and you don't believe someone when they tell you they are in pain, then they might be gone the next day. If we don't listen, we are killing people.”

Namises warned concerned community members attending the event in the Tobias Hainyeko constituency that unless the issue of widespread violence was addressed, Namibians would never be free.

“Namibian people, never be afraid to raise your voice, for honesty, truth and compassion, against injustice and lying and greed. And when we are raped, that is an injustice.”

GBV in Namibia has been identified as a national crisis.

Between 2013 and 2015 more than 150 women were killed in gender-related attacks, and over 3 000 cases of rape and more than 2 000 cases of domestic violence which resulted in charges of grievous bodily harm were reported.

It is estimated that around one third of Namibian rape victims are younger than 18 while more than a third of women aged between 15 and 49 have experienced some form of violence in this country.

The Ministry of Justice recently reported that 70% of criminal cases registered at the High Court were related to gender-based violence (GBV).

Saturday's event was kick-started with a march by concerned members of the community, co-hosted by funding partners Bread for the World.

The event was aimed at strengthening collaboration between communities, civil society organisations and service providers to work more closely together in their efforts to address GBV.

LifeLine/ChildLine has been implementing a project, funded by Bread for the World, in Okahandja Park and Babylon to help strengthen the community's capacity to effectively prevent and respond to GBV and child abuse.

Namises on Saturday argued that communities would be strengthened if neighbours and others began by speaking out on violence and advising each other where to find help, with such organisations like LifeLine.

“Words bring us together. Silence separates us. When we are silent, each one suffers alone. And just look at our communities, how the people suffer alone until they die. We need solidarity, I need you and you need me,” she said.

Youth activist Nelson Shipandeni, who is the founder of the Otjomuise Rising Stars, said GBV can take many shapes.

“It can be sexual, psychological, economical, emotional and verbal,” he explained.

He criticised Namibia's high tolerance for violence in general.

“We all need to say no to violence regardless of who it is directed at or the person committing the crime. Many times people watch as someone is abused and don't intervene.”

He said in Namibia, gender-based violence is mostly domestic, between intimate partners or in families.

He pointed out that men can also be victims of GBV.

“People make the mistake [to think] that men cannot be victims, because as we grow up we are told that boys don't cry or they are cowards if they do.”

He encouraged men who feel they are victims to step forward and to get the help that is available “regardless of what gender you are”.

He echoed Namises by saying that it is crucial to reach out for help and not to stay mum on what is happening.

Moreover, he cautioned against using alcohol or drugs.

“They will never be a solution to your problems, plus they are a health hazard.”

JANA-MARI SMITH

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