Should I give him more time?

Question: 

Dear Auntie Nangy, I am a 30-year-old woman dating a married guy. He has been out of the house he shared with his wife for three years now but the problem is that he just keeps promising to file the divorce yet nothing happens. Should I give him more time or just move on? I know he loves me and I love him too.

Answer: 

If after three years he still hasn’t divorced his wife, chances are that he is not going to do so at all. Maybe your only course of action is to force the issue by giving him an ultimatum but your decision should probably be based on how much you love him and whether you are willing to take the risk of him rejecting you. At least you will know where you stand and you can then make a decision.