My girlfriend’s mother hates me

Mothers are very protective of their children. I can imagine that she is wary of a boy dating her daughter, but there is such a thing as being overly protective which is also not good as children need to spread their wings and experience life.

I really doubt that she sees you as something sub-human but to win her over is definitely not going to be easy.

You need to show her that you are a decent and trustworthy guy. That means you will have to stick to all her rules like keeping to the time that your girlfriend must be home, being courteous at all times and showing that you have good manners by always being polite and telling her where you are going when you go out and asking what time you must be back.

I know this sounds old fashioned but trust me, good manners will never go out of style and will be the only way you can prove to her that you are worthy of her daughter. Good luck.