Is this love?

Question: 

Dear Auntie Nangy
I am 22 years old and my boyfriend is 39. We have been together for three years and we live together. The problem is that he took my phone and called all of the numbers. Now he is angry and I told him about the number I found in his phone and then he got angry. What should I do, Auntie? I really love him so much.

Answer: 

You both have serious trust issues. You have to discuss this issue face to face. Jealousy destroys any relationship and only you can decide if you want to allow that.