He cheats and cries

Question: 

Dear Auntie Nangy,

I am married to a man who lies to me every time he has a girlfriend and sleeps out. We have two kids but he doesn’t care about them. I take care of the kids and when I talk about this or tell him I want a divorce then he cries and says he loves me. But I am suffering a lot with this man and his girlfriends. Please help me.

Answer: 

He is such a baby and you are falling for the act. End your suffering and show him you are really serious by getting legal advice on the divorce proceedings. He might get his act together then but if he doesn’t, call it a day and get out.