Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Mon, 2011-10-31 11:59
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy,
I am sick and tired of being criticised by my colleagues just because I’m very short. What can I do, is there any medication I can take to make myself taller? Auntie, please help me with this.
Answer:
Napoleon Bonaparte, Ludwig van Beethoven, Joan of Arc, Oprah Winfrey, Haile Selassie, Edith Piaf, Aristotle Onassis, Mahatma Gandhi, Mother Teresa, the list goes on and on, every one very short and all of them people of substance. I’m not mentioning these people to tell you that you are in exalted company but each of these people became persons of worth despite hardships.
Being short does not exclude you from respect and self worth but you need to earn it. Carry yourself with dignity and self-belief and other people will
see you as such and will not see your size.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Mon, 2011-10-31 11:58
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy,
I am a boy of 19 and I have a girlfriend who lives in Windhoek. I love her so much but she never calls or SMSes me. I am the only who calls or SMSes. Is this normal?
Answer:
Did you ever think to ask her why she doesn’t SMS or call you? That should tell you the reason.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Mon, 2011-10-31 11:56
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy,
Please advise me. I am a 19-year-old girl and I get terrible breast pains. What should I do? I went to the hospital several times and I got tablets but it hasn’t stopped yet.
Answer:
If you haven’t been examined by a doctor at the hospital then you need to get to a one as soon as possible.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Mon, 2011-10-31 11:56
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy,
I am a 22-year-old woman and I gave birth to my first baby girl in 2006 but after 4 months she passed away. Now I want another baby but I don’t know why I can’t fall pregnant. I tried but I can’t fall pregnant. What happened with me? I at least want a baby. Won’t I be able to have kids any more?
Answer:
I can only advise you to see a doctor or gynaecologist who will be able to help you.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Mon, 2011-10-31 11:55
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy,
I’m a 19-year-old boy but I have small penis. Can you give me advice, but just on my phone, please Auntie.
Answer:
Wow, it feels like I’ve written a whole book about this subject but I know it’s important to men.
Auntie cannot give advice directly to readers but only through this column.
Women cannot understand this obsession with penile size as they are not attracted to a man because of the size of his penis. Some women really dislike the idea of a large penis and are more impressed by the thickness of a penis rather than the length as they like the feeling of being stretched around the entrance to the vagina. Make peace with what you have and learn to use
it well as that is what women want.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Mon, 2011-10-31 11:54
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy,
I used to be a player but now I found a girl which I really love. The problem is that I still have 3 other girls which I don’t love but they love me and I don’t want to break their hearts. What should I do now?
Answer:
For one thing, you can stop being so smug. I don’t think you’re complaining, I think you’re bragging. Being the player that you are you should have no problem breaking hearts so I think you should do everybody a favour by breaking it off with them and allowing them to get over you, which I believe will be much easier for them than you think. Then you can spend your considerable charm on your true love.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Mon, 2011-10-31 11:53
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy,
Auntie my life is a living hell. I’m 41 years old and I haven’t had a boyfriend since my ex left me for another lady four years ago. I’m so lonely. What should I do Auntie, I already put an ad in Cell Pals looking for a man but I haven’t found one yet.
Answer:
It’s not easy being so lonely and when your world has been turned upside down with someone walking out on you, it’s twice as hard. Your first reaction is to draw away from people and cocoon yourself but the quicker you stand up and take charge, the faster you will have a full and wonderful life.
Looking for someone through Cell Pals is a positive step but I also believe you should get out there and grab life by the horns.
I know it is difficult for a woman to go out on her own but join clubs like sport clubs, social societies like Toastmasters or go birdwatching. You can even get involved with groups that reach out and care for the less fortunate. Go out to “safe” social occasions like opening nights at art exhibitions. Don’t do this with the intention of meeting a man but meeting people and trust me, you will start to have fun and the right companion will show up.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Mon, 2011-10-31 11:49
A man is driving up a steep, narrow mountain road. A woman is driving down the same road. As they pass each other, the woman leans out the window and yells, "PIG!" Read more about Difference between men and women
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Mon, 2011-10-31 11:49
A male frog goes to a psychic. The psychic tells him, "You are going to meet a beautiful young girl who will want to know everything about you." Read more about Dissecting love
